“First of all, thank you! The way you’ve put this all together is nothing short of brilliant, and certainly a great gift to the world.

I have to tell you, this is truly a fascinating experience … and different from anything that’s happened [to me] before. Brian found me via my Bloved Profile on Match.com. The quality of what Brian and I are sharing together is deeply nurturing, highly inspiring, happily connected to mutually-shared loves, and frankly, already very loving. As you’ve predicted, it’s easy and not fraught with trying to impress.

As a longtime counselor, it has become 100% obvious to me that most of my clients’ complaints about their partners (that they were desperately trying to fix or “transcend”) would never actually end up creating a real loving connection. Trying to change people doesn’t work – people are who they are. They just don’t know how to find someone who is meant for them – which is the thing you have so beautifully shown us how to do!”

“This is a huge thank you for your course and your personalized help, care, support and dedicated commitment to my success in finding a Loveship! It really worked! He is just such a lovely, kind, gentle and caring man, and we would never have found each other without you and your program.

 You are doing such an amazing thing. I’d say it’s God’s work, but I know I’d sound like a weirdo. To me, though, it is.”

“I found your discussion about the old paradigm and new paradigm very eye opening. The way you laid it out really opened my eyes as to what I did in the past that did not work. This has me focusing on dating in a different way and really creates hope for finding my future Loveship.”

“Troy and Judy are by far the best dating coaches for anyone who is trying to navigate the complex dating scene in our modern age. What struck me most is that their approach to dating is based on natural affinity with a prospective partner. In contrast to the teaching that a relationship requires “work”, I learned that a relationship should feel easy and devoid of daily conflict, and they showed how it is possible to find that.

But the most important thing I learned was that I do not have to compromise or settle for anything less than what I truly want, and this teaching, more than anything else, changed what I had been tolerating for so many years. It changed my beliefs about what I deserved and what I could aim to have in my life.

It is for this reason, more than any other, that I recommend Bloved’s approach to dating to anyone who really wants to find the love of their life. Thank you both for the amazing and deeply heartfelt work you are doing in the world. Meeting you has changed my life.”

“Now I realize what I’ve been doing wrong! I will definitely introduce the approaches you introduced to improve my dating.”

“A new perspective that will give you the freedom to find your match. Troy and Judy show you how. You will be amazed by the simple perspective, and by the amazing results.”